dissonance between you and me

one thing talk can't accomplish, however, is communication. This is because everybody's talking too much to pay attention to what anyone else is saying.

What makes distances between you and me?
That is from the way my mind to put the words, the way we percieve what you say in my preferred thought and the preconception you and I understand very well.

For instance, there is a fact no one denies. But the way accept the fact is totally grounded on your experience, thought, life style and the quality of life and education.

Also more importantly, we just keep saying something which even it is absurd because of to escape from silence. There is no chance we pay attention or listen sincerely.
Sometimes in music, there is advantage having dissonance notes because it makes some different ways of showing composer's thought. However has it meaning, it doesn't code with human being's speech, I mean, communication.

One thing I learned is we don't talk but only speak loud.
Another thing is if one wants to communicate, one should show what you think and feel before your friends or sweetheart misunderstand according to his or her thought. Unless there is honesty, there is no communication or touch your fellow.